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Gubbles
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| 12/15/2008 9:52 PM |
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| ok, so im in a serious committed relationship, but i have had my few flings when I was young(er), but I want to know how to relate to other men, im trying to learn, I dont know what are unrealistic expations or genuine caring responces from his heart to what im doing, I tend to relate to men better than I do women (in some cases, NOT all), but I want to know what you think....any ideas or suggestions? |
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Dave
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| 12/18/2008 2:01 PM |
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I'm still playing that one by ear, but here are some guidelines I've set for myself in dealing with the opposite gender:
a) Apart from a handshake, no (zero) physical contact.
b) Never complain about your spouse/fiancee/etc to someone else of their gender (except a professional: pastor, doctor, psychologist)
c) if possible, avoid being alone with someone else of the opposite gender (car pooling, working late at the office, etc. should have 3 people to avoid rumours/temptations) |
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